Make Your Resolutions Stick
7 Psychology Tricks
Start on a
Monday.
The turn of another year
tricks us into seeing our big-picture selves, our slates wiped clean. Take
advantage of it. People commit to their goals more fiercely after a major
benchmark like New Year’s Day. If you are an I-don’t-believe-in-resolutions
person who nonetheless wants to break a bad habit, wait for a Monday. It’s the
most popular day of the week for starting diets and stopping smoking, studies
show.
Don’t
just wing it.
How’s this for a terrible irony: the more you want your
goal, the less you’re likely to plan for it, according to a paper
in the journal Behavioral Science and Policy. That’s because we
tend to think good intentions are enough, but an actual plan prevents
procrastination. People with plans stick to their goals way more often than
those who wing it.
Do not
have a Plan B.
Backup plans backfire by
zapping your desire to chase your main goal. In a series of new studies, people
who were told to think up a Plan B were less likely to attain their main
objective. Researchers suspect that having backup goals may make failure feel
somehow more acceptable.
Pick a
round number.
Some professors lead by George Wu at the University of Chicago’s Booth
School of Business, recently looked at marathon runners at
the bitter end of their races. A huge number of people finished in times that
clustered around round numbers, the researchers discovered—like a 4-hour
marathon. “Marathon runners feel a lot worse just missing these really
arbitrary reference points: the round numbers,” Wu says. So when people are
really, really close to just missing their round-number goal, they’re much more
likely to speed up at the painful end to beat it. People who are projected to
beat it comfortably, however, actually slow down.
Put
cash on the line.
In a 2008 study, the most effective weight-loss plan was
one in which people had to fork over cash if they didn’t meet their goal. After
16 weeks, those with financial incentives lost 14 lb. more than those who just
weighed in.
Chop it up.
You know how good it feels to
tick off an item from your to-do list. Put that to work by hacking a massive
goal (reading 24 books a year, say) into parts (two per month). It’s more
gratifying than working away at one big goal, says George Wachiuri, CEO Optiven Group of Companies Kenya.
Conserve
your willpower.
Think of willpower as your greatest natural resource, but
know that it’s also a finite one, some experts say. Every time you engage your
willpower for one task—saying no to a glass of wine, passing up the free
cookies at work—you have less to resist other temptations. Since willpower is
the secret ingredient to meeting your goals, use it wisely.
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